Complete Guide To Dealing WIth Difficult, Angry, Aggressive And  Abusive Customers

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If this is your first visit, you'll probably be amazed at the number of tips and techniques we've shared with you to help you deal with those difficult customers, from the mildly annoyed and annoying, to the customers who seem on the edge of violence.

We've drawn upon the content of our books and extracted many of the principles and behaviors that have been proven effective in these kinds of situations.

We recommend that you take your time, and hunt around a bit, explore the different categories, and perhaps bookmark, or better yet, share the tips we provide with your colleagues and friends.

We update this site regularly, so make sure you return often.

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If It Wasn't For The Customers I'd Really Like This Job: Stop Angry, Hostile Customers COLD While Remaining Professional, Stress Free, Efficient and Cool As A Cucumber

I hope you are learning a few new techniques to help you deal with your difficult customers and clients. The majority of the tip and techniques here are from this book: If It Wasn't For The Customers, I'd really like this job, so you will find it much more beneficial to have the book all in one place -- either in print, PDF format and/or Kindle format. The latter two can be read on almost all mobile devices.

Here's what reviewers are saying:

E. Meehan says (on This book has been a life saver. I loved the title, the picture was spot on to how I felt many a time with a raving, angry, pissed, annoyed customers. I felt powerless, demeaned, and disrespected... (amazon)Perfect reader rating

C. Taylor wrote: (on Oh my goodness! I can't even remember how I came across this book. I was looking on the internet for something or other. I found it on the website of the author I believe. This book is EXCELLENT! five star amazon rating review

Everyone needs this whether you are working directly in customer service or not, you need to get this book! It is well worth the $14 I spent on it! This is a book of great value for anyone who deals with other humans. So much valuable insight about how to deal with many different types of difficult and challenging situations whether in person, online with email or social media, via email or on the phone! Get the book! Read the book! Apply the knowledge in the book and find more success with your interpersonal interactions!

Macy OK commented: Bacal nails it! While more are messing with the entanglements of Customer Satisfaction which leads to no where...he addresses the specifics head on and focuses on the greater picture and ultimate goal of the Customer Experience which leads to Loyalty. Excellent job! Reader rating

Suggested retail price is $22.95 but its almost always sold at a discount. The Kindle edition is less than $10.00 so that's the best bargain. The PDF version is usually under $15.00, and of course, there is no shipping or wait time!

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